--- product_id: 25601273 title: "Stop Saying You're Fine: The No-BS Guide to Getting What You Want" price: "€ 26.94" currency: EUR in_stock: true reviews_count: 13 url: https://www.desertcart.hr/products/25601273-stop-saying-youre-fine-the-no-bs-guide-to-getting store_origin: HR region: Croatia --- # Stop Saying You're Fine: The No-BS Guide to Getting What You Want **Price:** € 26.94 **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** Stop Saying You're Fine: The No-BS Guide to Getting What You Want - **How much does it cost?** € 26.94 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.hr](https://www.desertcart.hr/products/25601273-stop-saying-youre-fine-the-no-bs-guide-to-getting) ## Best For - Customers looking for quality international products ## Why This Product - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description Mel Robbins has spent her career teaching people how to push past their self-imposed limits to get what they truly desire. She has an in-depth understanding of the psychological and social factors that repeatedly hold you back, and more important, a unique set of tools for getting you where you want to be. In Stop Saying You're Fine , she draws on neuroscientific research, interviews with countless everyday people, and ideas she's tested in her own life to show what works and what doesn't. The key, she explains, is understanding how your own brain works against you. Because evolution has biased your mental gears against taking action, what you need are techniques to outsmart yourself. That may sound impossible, but Mel has created a remarkably effective method to help you do just that--and some of her discoveries will astonish you. By ignoring how you feel and seizing small moments of rich possibility--a process she calls "leaning in"--you can make tiny course directions add up to huge change. Among this book's other topics: how everything can depend on not hitting the "snooze" button; the science of connecting with other people, what children can teach us about getting things done; and why five seconds is the maximum time you should wait before acting on a great idea. Blending warmth, humor and unflinching honesty with up-to-the-minute science and hard-earned wisdom, Stop Saying You're Fine moves beyond the platitudes and easy fixes offered in many self-help books. Mel's insights will actually help vault you to a better life, ensuring that the next time someone asks how you're doing, you can truthfully answer, "Absolutely great ." Review: I am leaving an desertcart review... - I saw the Tedx talk with Mel Robbins and loved it so bought her book a couple of days ago. How inspiring! She says to act quickly instead of second guessing (I am paraphrasing) and so I have been. I thought, I want to leave an desertcart review for a product yesterday and did it. I have had an desertcart account for 11 years and have not left a review in all of that time although I shop here regularly. I always wanted to because I read so many reviews, and I wanted to contribute. However, I ignored the impulse to do it using excuses such as "what if my review sounds silly" or "who would care what I have to say"... etc. But I ignored it and started leaving reviews after all of these years! Why? Because I wanted to. And this book is about doing what you want to do! It may seem like a small change (it's a big change for shy me!) but there will be many more I am certain. I will update this review soon. I am only 20 percent through the book and she already inspired a change in me. This is proof! Thanks Mel! Update 3-29-17 I finished the book shortly after leaving my review... wonderful book. I have read motivational books before but this is my favorite one because it has inspired me, (and not just for a couple of days after reading it)... and the inspiration has led to action and PROGRESS. I have mapped out my goals for the year and figured out ways I can reach these goals by working on them 10-15 minutes per day or with a small check off list. I looked at my never-ending to do list and discovered I don't need to do most of those things- I want to accomplish things that are meaningful to me. I get the negative voices all the time that say "I am too tired" or "I can't because it is too difficult" or "I can't because it won't work"... and I ignore them because those excuses will not help me reach my dreams. A cool thing about reaching these goals is it may inspire others in my life who feel stuck. If I can do it, they may feel like they can, too. I want to do that. This book will help you do that. Review: Great read - I enjoyed this book. The author kicked my butt. It was lime she had been living in my head. She gave scenarios and ways to change and work through them. ## Features - Stop Saying You're Fine: The No-BS Guide to Getting What You Want ## Technical Specifications | Specification | Value | |---------------|-------| | Best Sellers Rank | #52,993 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #113 in Self-Esteem (Books) #309 in Motivational Self-Help (Books) #351 in Success Self-Help | | Customer Reviews | 4.6 out of 5 stars 1,428 Reviews | ## Images ![Stop Saying You're Fine: The No-BS Guide to Getting What You Want - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71Fx7JMUrKL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ I am leaving an Amazon review... *by L***E on February 25, 2017* I saw the Tedx talk with Mel Robbins and loved it so bought her book a couple of days ago. How inspiring! She says to act quickly instead of second guessing (I am paraphrasing) and so I have been. I thought, I want to leave an Amazon review for a product yesterday and did it. I have had an Amazon account for 11 years and have not left a review in all of that time although I shop here regularly. I always wanted to because I read so many reviews, and I wanted to contribute. However, I ignored the impulse to do it using excuses such as "what if my review sounds silly" or "who would care what I have to say"... etc. But I ignored it and started leaving reviews after all of these years! Why? Because I wanted to. And this book is about doing what you want to do! It may seem like a small change (it's a big change for shy me!) but there will be many more I am certain. I will update this review soon. I am only 20 percent through the book and she already inspired a change in me. This is proof! Thanks Mel! Update 3-29-17 I finished the book shortly after leaving my review... wonderful book. I have read motivational books before but this is my favorite one because it has inspired me, (and not just for a couple of days after reading it)... and the inspiration has led to action and PROGRESS. I have mapped out my goals for the year and figured out ways I can reach these goals by working on them 10-15 minutes per day or with a small check off list. I looked at my never-ending to do list and discovered I don't need to do most of those things- I want to accomplish things that are meaningful to me. I get the negative voices all the time that say "I am too tired" or "I can't because it is too difficult" or "I can't because it won't work"... and I ignore them because those excuses will not help me reach my dreams. A cool thing about reaching these goals is it may inspire others in my life who feel stuck. If I can do it, they may feel like they can, too. I want to do that. This book will help you do that. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Great read *by A***R on October 6, 2025* I enjoyed this book. The author kicked my butt. It was lime she had been living in my head. She gave scenarios and ways to change and work through them. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐ Just the kick in the butt I needed! *by S***N on July 31, 2013* Mel Robbins' style is very direct and to the point...no mamby pamby sugar coating. She explains that it all boils down to powering through your doubts and fears to get what you really want. This book was very refreshing in that sense but if you're looking for a magic bullet or a quick fix, you're out of luck. She walks you through all the ways your brain is programmed to work against you and gives you steps to identify what it is you really want (and no it doesn't have to be some wild fantasy - unless that's what you really want). She also asks you to be honest about WHY you want it and she gives you license to be vain. So you want to get in shape to rub it in someone's face who rejected you? Great!! At least you're being honest and that's really the key. If you can't articulate why you want something with some real emotion then you're not going to kick yourself in the butt to get it. I originally borrowed this book from my local library and after reading it I knew I had to buy it so I could mark up all the "ah-ha" moments she provides. I would suggest you look her up on YouTube TED talks as well...she's very engaging. --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.hr/products/25601273-stop-saying-youre-fine-the-no-bs-guide-to-getting](https://www.desertcart.hr/products/25601273-stop-saying-youre-fine-the-no-bs-guide-to-getting) --- *Product available on Desertcart Croatia* *Store origin: HR* *Last updated: 2026-05-18*