--- product_id: 3820113 title: "What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl's Shame-Free Guide to Sex and Safety" price: "€ 47.06" currency: EUR in_stock: true reviews_count: 11 url: https://www.desertcart.hr/products/3820113-what-you-really-really-want-the-smart-girls-shame-free store_origin: HR region: Croatia --- # What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl's Shame-Free Guide to Sex and Safety **Price:** € 47.06 **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl's Shame-Free Guide to Sex and Safety - **How much does it cost?** € 47.06 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.hr](https://www.desertcart.hr/products/3820113-what-you-really-really-want-the-smart-girls-shame-free) ## Best For - Customers looking for quality international products ## Why This Product - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl's Shame-Free Guide to Sex and Safety [Friedman, Jaclyn] on desertcart.com. *FREE* shipping on qualifying offers. What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl's Shame-Free Guide to Sex and Safety Review: Honest, comprehensive and effective - It's probably not easy to gauge the efficacy of a book by a woman and for women from a man's perspective. That being said, as a longtime sex assault prosecutor and anti-violence advocate, I can say confidently that WYRRW is a fantastic reference with common sense and deeply fair notions of not only self-protection and self defense (both psychologically and physically) but also self-discovery and self-support. I loved reading this book as a man, and not because I felt I was gaining some sexually valuable inside knowledge. Rather, it made me more attuned to what women often deal with (and that men don't) and how an emotionally healthy, happy and self-possessed woman can interact with a man (assuming she wants to) in a way that's better for both. WYRRW is not just a woman's book (although principally so). It's more of a book on being happy with who you are, what you want, and most importantly how to determine both in the first place. Great work, Ms. Friedman. I look forward to seeing more from you. Review: Great resource - I wish I had had this book when I was 20. It would have saved me many years of strife muddling through it myself in a toxic, sex-negative culture. After hearing someone recommend it to a younger acquaintance, I bought a copy to read... then promptly bought copies for my younger college-aged sisters. I thought it might be a kind of weird book to get from your sister (my family Does Not Talk about such things), but did it anyway. My sisters were extremely excited to get the book. One reports back that her dormmates are basically lining up to be the next to read it, and thanked me for being someone willing to talk to her about sexuality and sexual health. This is a GREAT resource for opening conversations and giving young women the space to figure out what they want for themselves. I only wish I knew of an equivalent resource for young men. ## Technical Specifications | Specification | Value | |---------------|-------| | Customer Reviews | 4.3 4.3 out of 5 stars (55) | | Dimensions | 5.5 x 1 x 8.25 inches | | Edition | 0 | | ISBN-10 | 1580053440 | | ISBN-13 | 978-1580053440 | | Item Weight | 12.8 ounces | | Language | English | | Print length | 352 pages | | Publication date | October 25, 2011 | | Publisher | Seal Press | ## Images ![What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl's Shame-Free Guide to Sex and Safety - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/81ko7g5OajL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Honest, comprehensive and effective *by R***F on October 12, 2012* It's probably not easy to gauge the efficacy of a book by a woman and for women from a man's perspective. That being said, as a longtime sex assault prosecutor and anti-violence advocate, I can say confidently that WYRRW is a fantastic reference with common sense and deeply fair notions of not only self-protection and self defense (both psychologically and physically) but also self-discovery and self-support. I loved reading this book as a man, and not because I felt I was gaining some sexually valuable inside knowledge. Rather, it made me more attuned to what women often deal with (and that men don't) and how an emotionally healthy, happy and self-possessed woman can interact with a man (assuming she wants to) in a way that's better for both. WYRRW is not just a woman's book (although principally so). It's more of a book on being happy with who you are, what you want, and most importantly how to determine both in the first place. Great work, Ms. Friedman. I look forward to seeing more from you. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Great resource *by T***L on May 16, 2015* I wish I had had this book when I was 20. It would have saved me many years of strife muddling through it myself in a toxic, sex-negative culture. After hearing someone recommend it to a younger acquaintance, I bought a copy to read... then promptly bought copies for my younger college-aged sisters. I thought it might be a kind of weird book to get from your sister (my family Does Not Talk about such things), but did it anyway. My sisters were extremely excited to get the book. One reports back that her dormmates are basically lining up to be the next to read it, and thanked me for being someone willing to talk to her about sexuality and sexual health. This is a GREAT resource for opening conversations and giving young women the space to figure out what they want for themselves. I only wish I knew of an equivalent resource for young men. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐ Very Good Book *by D***0 on December 23, 2012* This book was not at all what I expected when I first purchased it. I did not expect it to be a workbook of sorts and I initially was a little dissapointed. However, I started reading it and found myself doing the exercises and learning alot about myself in the process. 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