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# How We Love, Expanded Edition: Discover Your Love Style, Enhance Your Marriage

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Review: I so needed this!! - I so needed this study. A friend on staff at our church recommended this to my husband for us to go through together when he mentioned he and I were struggling in our relationship. I lost my mother tragically in a house fire almost a year ago. My siblings, who do not know the Lord, have gone off the deep end and are showing their worst sides since her death. It has opened my husband’s eyes up to the struggles we had growing up as kids in a home with abuse and neglect from both parents. This book, the workbooks and online content, are a godsend in this perfect moment for me to go through this with my husband. I would recommend this for any person, single or married, because it is useful as you consider any relationships you have in life and how you love others and allow yourself to be loved. The authors walk you through some raw and painful contemplative questions to help you sift through the truth of your childhood, the good the bad and especially the ugly, and offer practical ways to move into a healthier mind and heart space. Our childhoods affect the way we relate to others and how we see ourselves in this world. It doesn’t matter if you grew up in a lovely home with doting parents or were abused as a child, this book offers a great perspective and challenge to become who God meant you to be so that you can live life fully.
Review: Transforming!!!!! - Oh my word! I’ve heard about this book for years, but never thought about buying it until recently. I regularly listen to Milan on New Life Live radio show. I was married 22 years to an alcoholic/sex addict and we never could connect emotionally because he was unavailable. I knew something was wrong beyond the enabling and addictions, but didn’t know how messed up I was/am until my remarriage to a wonderful man. I’ve been remarried 2 years to a very deep feeler (like me)... he wants to connect and communicate. Well, I didn’t know how to communicate well. I am still learning how to express my needs and listen to my precious husband, who expresses his needs and emotions. This book was absolutely instrumental in changing how my husband and I see ourselves! We had a 30 hour car ride across country and spent time reading and discussing this book! I’ve also ordered the workbook. It was a lightbulb moment for each of to realize we are both vacillators! It clicked and made soooo much sense when we finally discovered our love styles! We have begun a new journey of empathy for one another and insight into ourselves. We both point the finger at one another in arguments, causing us so much frustration and anger. And a lot of shutting one another out. I thought we surely must be crazy! Now we see how we tend to look at the other’s sin instead of our own. I can not say enough about our “aha” moments in the car together! We had one of the most engaging, beautiful times together discussing this book and “seeing” our dysfunctional patterns. Phew! It has given us both so much relief and hope. We adore one another, but couldn’t get past arguments without a huge blowup. It has been so precious to see my husband bend over backwards to love me well. We both finally feel seen and understood by the other. I can not wait to delve into the workbook! I will be giving this book as marriage gifts! Well done. Well done.

## Technical Specifications

| Specification | Value |
|---------------|-------|
| Best Sellers Rank | #9,025 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #36 in Marriage #42 in Love & Romance (Books) #56 in Christian Marriage (Books) |
| Customer Reviews | 4.7 4.7 out of 5 stars (2,842) |
| Dimensions  | 5.98 x 0.94 x 9.02 inches |
| Edition  | Expanded |
| ISBN-10  | 0735290172 |
| ISBN-13  | 978-0735290174 |
| Item Weight  | 13.2 ounces |
| Language  | English |
| Print length  | 352 pages |
| Publication date  | July 11, 2017 |
| Publisher  | WaterBrook |

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ I so needed this!!
*by J***N on January 16, 2025*

I so needed this study. A friend on staff at our church recommended this to my husband for us to go through together when he mentioned he and I were struggling in our relationship. I lost my mother tragically in a house fire almost a year ago. My siblings, who do not know the Lord, have gone off the deep end and are showing their worst sides since her death. It has opened my husband’s eyes up to the struggles we had growing up as kids in a home with abuse and neglect from both parents. This book, the workbooks and online content, are a godsend in this perfect moment for me to go through this with my husband. I would recommend this for any person, single or married, because it is useful as you consider any relationships you have in life and how you love others and allow yourself to be loved. The authors walk you through some raw and painful contemplative questions to help you sift through the truth of your childhood, the good the bad and especially the ugly, and offer practical ways to move into a healthier mind and heart space. Our childhoods affect the way we relate to others and how we see ourselves in this world. It doesn’t matter if you grew up in a lovely home with doting parents or were abused as a child, this book offers a great perspective and challenge to become who God meant you to be so that you can live life fully.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Transforming!!!!!
*by B***M on October 11, 2019*

Oh my word! I’ve heard about this book for years, but never thought about buying it until recently. I regularly listen to Milan on New Life Live radio show. I was married 22 years to an alcoholic/sex addict and we never could connect emotionally because he was unavailable. I knew something was wrong beyond the enabling and addictions, but didn’t know how messed up I was/am until my remarriage to a wonderful man. I’ve been remarried 2 years to a very deep feeler (like me)... he wants to connect and communicate. Well, I didn’t know how to communicate well. I am still learning how to express my needs and listen to my precious husband, who expresses his needs and emotions. This book was absolutely instrumental in changing how my husband and I see ourselves! We had a 30 hour car ride across country and spent time reading and discussing this book! I’ve also ordered the workbook. It was a lightbulb moment for each of to realize we are both vacillators! It clicked and made soooo much sense when we finally discovered our love styles! We have begun a new journey of empathy for one another and insight into ourselves. We both point the finger at one another in arguments, causing us so much frustration and anger. And a lot of shutting one another out. I thought we surely must be crazy! Now we see how we tend to look at the other’s sin instead of our own. I can not say enough about our “aha” moments in the car together! We had one of the most engaging, beautiful times together discussing this book and “seeing” our dysfunctional patterns. Phew! It has given us both so much relief and hope. We adore one another, but couldn’t get past arguments without a huge blowup. It has been so precious to see my husband bend over backwards to love me well. We both finally feel seen and understood by the other. I can not wait to delve into the workbook! I will be giving this book as marriage gifts! Well done. Well done.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Simply the best!!!!!!
*by T***C on February 8, 2011*

There is only one way to rate this book...amazing! It has absolutely changed my life. I often tell people that other than the Bible this is the best book I have ever read. The authors are so transparent about their lives and their experiences that you almost feel like you know them. It will bring about change and healing like you have never experienced before. When I first read the foreword by Steve Auterburn he closes with a personal money back guaruntee. I thought to myself "I'm sure the book is good Steve, but come on". After reading it I understand why he is able to make such a guaruntee. When you are the real deal you stand behind what you are selling. Although in this case what is being sold is a guide to living a better life through self awareness. By understanding who you are, you are able to be a better you, have better relationships, especially the relationship with your spouse and have a better quality of life. I am a vacillator(get the book) and after sharing what I have learned in the book with my friends,it appears that I am an avoider magnet because my spouse and all of my close friends are avoiders. I purchased four copies of the book for my friends because I truly believe that it will change their lives as it has changed mine. The feedback I have received is just what I expected...WOW!!! I will close with this. How We love is an invaluable resource that I believe is a must have for any couple who wants to repair their marriage or have a great marriage. If I had the information contained in this book earlier I would still be married. Most of us believe you get what you pay for, but with this book I would strongly disagree. You are getting a Mercedes at a volkswagon price. Enjoy!

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