--- product_id: 48903698 title: "It's OK That You're Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn't Understand" price: "€ 46.64" currency: EUR in_stock: true reviews_count: 10 url: https://www.desertcart.hr/products/48903698-its-ok-that-youre-not-ok-meeting-grief-and-loss store_origin: HR region: Croatia --- # It's OK That You're Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn't Understand **Price:** € 46.64 **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** It's OK That You're Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn't Understand - **How much does it cost?** € 46.64 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.hr](https://www.desertcart.hr/products/48903698-its-ok-that-youre-not-ok-meeting-grief-and-loss) ## Best For - Customers looking for quality international products ## Why This Product - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description Review: Very real and honest. So helpful. - This book saved my life. So real and honest, made me feel less alone. Review: The Grief I'm In Really Doesn't Have To Pass - I truly adored Megan Devine's book - I listened to it on Audible & narrated by herself too immersed in the heartbreaking grief process over the tragic death of her partner Matt. I found this extremely moving and a very connecting book when I myself have been surrounded by certain people who have never really suffered trying to offer me consolation and then end up wrongly judging and terribly hurting/torturing me and like Megan says - you really don't need these type of people anymore - my life is not an aberration outside of there so-called 'perfect' lives of happiness. I live with mountainous traumatic grief levels of my whole life being blown to smithereens for decades - I've had people say "You should be getting to grips with your suffering now" - How on earth could I ever be that exactly !? Megan' truly lovely book knows that Grief isn't a problem to fix and it wasn't traumatic events we asked for and I wholeheartedly agree that myself living Complex-PTSD on a very profound level & Severe M.E that I may never ever be OK - Megan' book provides much-needed companionship when in an emotionally illiterate world of platitudes and wrong judgements. "Walking on the skins of ruins" because we must tragically be with our Grief and our traumatic loss we must live with continually and we mustn't be pathologised in our grief it isn't something to get over. Megan writes beautifully on humans showing actual kindness & compassion showing us Love in the Wildest Form in an obliterated universe outside of the Cult of Happiness and intimacy of the greatest kind embracing us within our disappearance. No Grief is empirically the same so finding companionship with other grief survivors who can offer the best of empathy articulation of our daily lives and that each of our collective paths can be divergent. I hate the phrase 'This Too Shall Pass' so it was refreshing when listening to Megan' very heartbreaking narrative of grief & loss that she herself is also a dislike of derisory positions on our lives. Fantastic narration by Megan Devine and a book to truly treasure because when someone like Megan truly provides a universal consideration of Grief so very poignant to listen to and one that I truly believe in then it stands out and it is a book I'll always cherish because it structures our lives when everything else has crumbled. ## Technical Specifications | Specification | Value | |---------------|-------| | Best Sellers Rank | 80,266 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) 113 in Death & Bereavement 393 in Specific Psychological Topics 1,700 in Health, Family & Lifestyle Self Help | | Customer reviews | 4.6 4.6 out of 5 stars (9,274) | | Dimensions | 13.34 x 1.91 x 20.19 cm | | ISBN-10 | 1622039076 | | ISBN-13 | 978-1622039074 | | Item weight | 1.05 kg | | Language | English | | Print length | 280 pages | | Publication date | 1 Oct. 2017 | | Publisher | Sounds True | ## Images ![It's OK That You're Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn't Understand - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71D7B8crScL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Very real and honest. So helpful. *by L***. on 12 December 2025* This book saved my life. So real and honest, made me feel less alone. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ The Grief I'm In Really Doesn't Have To Pass *by D***H on 29 October 2020* I truly adored Megan Devine's book - I listened to it on Audible & narrated by herself too immersed in the heartbreaking grief process over the tragic death of her partner Matt. I found this extremely moving and a very connecting book when I myself have been surrounded by certain people who have never really suffered trying to offer me consolation and then end up wrongly judging and terribly hurting/torturing me and like Megan says - you really don't need these type of people anymore - my life is not an aberration outside of there so-called 'perfect' lives of happiness. I live with mountainous traumatic grief levels of my whole life being blown to smithereens for decades - I've had people say "You should be getting to grips with your suffering now" - How on earth could I ever be that exactly !? Megan' truly lovely book knows that Grief isn't a problem to fix and it wasn't traumatic events we asked for and I wholeheartedly agree that myself living Complex-PTSD on a very profound level & Severe M.E that I may never ever be OK - Megan' book provides much-needed companionship when in an emotionally illiterate world of platitudes and wrong judgements. "Walking on the skins of ruins" because we must tragically be with our Grief and our traumatic loss we must live with continually and we mustn't be pathologised in our grief it isn't something to get over. Megan writes beautifully on humans showing actual kindness & compassion showing us Love in the Wildest Form in an obliterated universe outside of the Cult of Happiness and intimacy of the greatest kind embracing us within our disappearance. No Grief is empirically the same so finding companionship with other grief survivors who can offer the best of empathy articulation of our daily lives and that each of our collective paths can be divergent. I hate the phrase 'This Too Shall Pass' so it was refreshing when listening to Megan' very heartbreaking narrative of grief & loss that she herself is also a dislike of derisory positions on our lives. Fantastic narration by Megan Devine and a book to truly treasure because when someone like Megan truly provides a universal consideration of Grief so very poignant to listen to and one that I truly believe in then it stands out and it is a book I'll always cherish because it structures our lives when everything else has crumbled. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ I would recommend to anyone I care about who’s grieving. *by A***R on 20 August 2020* I was so glad to find this book after I lost my dad. I would particularly recommend for atheists/humanists/agnostics. I don’t know the author’s philosophical persuasion and that was part of what was really accessible about it for me. I found some other grief support literature had a spiritual/religious hue that didn’t really appeal to me. There are also great resources attached to the book like the Refuge in Grief website (I have visited for articles numerous times), the author’s social media, and a Write Your Grief course that I found to be a tremendous complement to the book. I think it’s the tone of the book I appreciated more than anything. It’s sensitive but real and calls out things that need to be called out in society’s approach to grief. For me, it helped give a context to and take the edge off some of the disappointing behaviours of people around you when you are bereaved. Grief is a journey I wish nobody was on but if you find yourself forced there this is a thoughtful book that will companion you through a heart-wrenching experience. ## Frequently Bought Together - It's OK That You're Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn't Understand - How to Carry What Can't Be Fixed: A Journal for Grief - Healing After Loss: Daily Meditations For Working Through Grief --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.hr/products/48903698-its-ok-that-youre-not-ok-meeting-grief-and-loss](https://www.desertcart.hr/products/48903698-its-ok-that-youre-not-ok-meeting-grief-and-loss) --- *Product available on Desertcart Croatia* *Store origin: HR* *Last updated: 2026-07-16*