--- product_id: 85964484 title: "She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (Kerner)" price: "€ 31.22" currency: EUR in_stock: true reviews_count: 11 url: https://www.desertcart.hr/products/85964484-she-comes-first-the-thinking-mans-guide-to-pleasuring-woman store_origin: HR region: Croatia --- # She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (Kerner) **Price:** € 31.22 **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (Kerner) - **How much does it cost?** € 31.22 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.hr](https://www.desertcart.hr/products/85964484-she-comes-first-the-thinking-mans-guide-to-pleasuring-woman) ## Best For - Customers looking for quality international products ## Why This Product - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description desertcart.com: She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (Kerner) eBook : Kerner, Ian: Books Review: Written by a man, this book informs both men and women about intimate, little known details about female sexuality. A must read! - This book was written by a man who truly understands the essentials of how to please a woman sexually. He has learned the art releasing female passion and satisfaction and describes how to do this in clear, easy to understand details. This book is a 'must read' for both men and women who want to know more about how to potentiate female sexual response,develop intimacy and deepen both emotion and physical bonds. It's a surprising reality that many, many women actually stop having sex in long-term relationships. Is actually common. By reading this book you'll be learning specific ways you can truly pleasure the woman already in your life or your prospective partner. Putting this info into practice and growing in skills of how to pleasure a woman will make it much more likely that your partner will be encouraged to engage in ongoing physical intimacy. Also, many women have never been informed about specifics of our anatomical structure in relation to sexuality. Women and men both can learn from this book more details about female physiology related to arousal and sexuality and what is actually 'normal' for most women. For example, there is a 'myth' that most women achieve orgasm primarily through penetration, and that this way is 'ultimate' and a sign of 'success.' This belief is actually not based in fact! If you want to find out more of what really DOES most bring most women to orgasm, read this book! Also, Ian has a 'tandem' book for women to learn more about male sexuality: "Passionista: The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man." Ideally, in a relationship, both parties will read each of these books, openly discuss and enjoy 'practicing,' fumbling around and having fun while deepening together in passion, love and intimacy! Learning how to be an attentive, astute loving and skilled lover takes time and practice. Every woman is unique in her sexual expression. Having the willingness to admit that you don't know 'everything,' be open, enjoy being 'teachable' and to 'experiment' with using the knowledge from this book will definitely lead you down the path towards a happy and mutually satisfying intimate relationship. Review: Every Man Needs This Book! - This is the Guide I was looking for when I determined to start dating. Every man who intends to please his lady needs to understand their biology and this book has the best explanations I've ever read. I subscribed to Maxim and Men's Health magazines back in the day and everything I new came through those publications and experimentation with my (now) wife. However, I never clearly understood what I was working with, nor did she. This book explains everything so much better than anything I've read before. The "procedures" near the end of the book may not work for everyone, but just understanding how the female body functions during sex was the real eye-opener for us. ## Technical Specifications | Specification | Value | |---------------|-------| | ASIN | B000FC1PRK | | Accessibility | Learn more | | Best Sellers Rank | #14,686 in Kindle Store ( See Top 100 in Kindle Store ) #2 in Sexual Health #3 in Sex & Sexuality #3 in Sexual Instruction eBooks | | Customer Reviews | 4.6 4.6 out of 5 stars (8,801) | | Edition | Illustrated | | Enhanced typesetting | Enabled | | File size | 2.8 MB | | ISBN-13 | 978-0061792649 | | Language | English | | Page Flip | Enabled | | Part of series | Kerner | | Print length | 240 pages | | Publication date | October 13, 2009 | | Publisher | William Morrow | | Screen Reader | Supported | | Word Wise | Enabled | | X-Ray | Enabled | ## Images ![She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (Kerner) - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/81VT7iM7WzL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Written by a man, this book informs both men and women about intimate, little known details about female sexuality. A must read! *by M***Y on November 7, 2013* This book was written by a man who truly understands the essentials of how to please a woman sexually. He has learned the art releasing female passion and satisfaction and describes how to do this in clear, easy to understand details. This book is a 'must read' for both men and women who want to know more about how to potentiate female sexual response,develop intimacy and deepen both emotion and physical bonds. It's a surprising reality that many, many women actually stop having sex in long-term relationships. Is actually common. By reading this book you'll be learning specific ways you can truly pleasure the woman already in your life or your prospective partner. Putting this info into practice and growing in skills of how to pleasure a woman will make it much more likely that your partner will be encouraged to engage in ongoing physical intimacy. Also, many women have never been informed about specifics of our anatomical structure in relation to sexuality. Women and men both can learn from this book more details about female physiology related to arousal and sexuality and what is actually 'normal' for most women. For example, there is a 'myth' that most women achieve orgasm primarily through penetration, and that this way is 'ultimate' and a sign of 'success.' This belief is actually not based in fact! If you want to find out more of what really DOES most bring most women to orgasm, read this book! Also, Ian has a 'tandem' book for women to learn more about male sexuality: "Passionista: The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man." Ideally, in a relationship, both parties will read each of these books, openly discuss and enjoy 'practicing,' fumbling around and having fun while deepening together in passion, love and intimacy! Learning how to be an attentive, astute loving and skilled lover takes time and practice. Every woman is unique in her sexual expression. Having the willingness to admit that you don't know 'everything,' be open, enjoy being 'teachable' and to 'experiment' with using the knowledge from this book will definitely lead you down the path towards a happy and mutually satisfying intimate relationship. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Every Man Needs This Book! *by I***N on August 27, 2025* This is the Guide I was looking for when I determined to start dating. Every man who intends to please his lady needs to understand their biology and this book has the best explanations I've ever read. I subscribed to Maxim and Men's Health magazines back in the day and everything I new came through those publications and experimentation with my (now) wife. However, I never clearly understood what I was working with, nor did she. This book explains everything so much better than anything I've read before. The "procedures" near the end of the book may not work for everyone, but just understanding how the female body functions during sex was the real eye-opener for us. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐ She doesnt cum *by W***L on June 12, 2025* I feel like a women should have written this, but that's just me Tactics are somewhat useful, but every girl is different --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.hr/products/85964484-she-comes-first-the-thinking-mans-guide-to-pleasuring-woman](https://www.desertcart.hr/products/85964484-she-comes-first-the-thinking-mans-guide-to-pleasuring-woman) --- *Product available on Desertcart Croatia* *Store origin: HR* *Last updated: 2026-05-20*