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J**Y
I look back now
I read this book back when my ex and I broke up and I wish I would've listened to theAdvice sooner. I guess for me I need to figure out exactly what was laid out in this book for myself instead of just reading about it. Right now I'm in an amazing place in my life I learned to let go focus on me and do stuff for me and then if the man who broke your heart in the first place comes back you are a strong different women that he left. My ex has come back and I took it slow and played my cards right and did not fall back into old habits and we are the best we have been and I realize now I was a huge part of the problem I needed to be me and do me above all in any relationship and now that I realized that all of my relationships improved and this book only reinforced what I needed to learn on my own.
H**S
Gregg is AMAZING
So far so good! I have read it twice so far and plan on reading it again. Going through a really bad break up and also very weird given the circumstances of my situation and how close my ex is to my family. I reached out to Gregg because I was unsure if I should send the letter yet. He responded to me in just a few hours! Which is amazing! I cannot thank him enough for that. I was torn on what to do in my situation as with our breakup he will still be in my life no matter what and I didn’t want to ruin it even further. He has told me to give it 2-3 weeks real break from any communication and then see how it goes and then send the letter. We are broken up but the way we ended things after fighting hardcore for 5 days even after the breakup was tough. We knew we couldn’t just end it and not be civil given the situation. We talked and decided to be able to talk still. I reached out to Gregg after the fact because I had just read his book and was unsure about what to do. I will edit my post once I go through the process. I know it’s hard not to reach out but try your hardest, I started the gym the next day after the breakup and started reading books. Its so hard but do your best. He doesn’t just give you advice on what to do with the relationship but for yourself which I think is so important. Sometimes it’s easy to lose yourself in a relationship and it’s important to work on yourself. Also I’m about to read his next book who holds the cards now.
G**I
Very insightful
Great book .. Great insight to what a man is thinking during the breakup.Would recommend this book if your wanting to get your ex back.
P**L
Ok for the money
It was a quick and easy read but it's only specific to one type of breakup. It might work for some by my situation is different and it wouldn't work for me!
S**.
Amazingly helped me get my boyfriend back with little effort
I bought this book after my hasty boyfriend said" it's over". Petty reason to break up. But it was his call. It hurts when you are the one who got dumped.And for sure, the next thing is waking up sad, lonely and feeling lost..I read the book not expecting it to work. I said, "what the heck, $8 investment, who would think that an $8 book can get your bf back? I spent thousands of dollars in the past for some non sense advise from a therapist.-- never helped me.Now, this book is so simple. You follow the steps! I repeat, follow the steps and stay with the no contact rule!!! Learn to focus on yourself like the book said.And check this out... That handwritten letter sample in Gregg's book is the magic tool! Yeah, I got dumped. But when you finally said your final goodbye to a man, you'll reverse the situation. You will actually put knots in his stomach, beat his ego and you will make him realize how much he needs you.When my bf finally came around, I sort of played it cool. The "NOT NEEDY WOMAN" that every man hates but adore- that's what I did. Show the man that he is now a "piece of crap" that you want to get rid off. " but be nice.You kill him with kindness. Then you slowly talk it out. I won him back in 3 weeks. And he agreed that I am now the one who will be making the rules.And don't fret if your friends saw your bf in some dating web sites. They do that to try to forget the hurt. Because deep inside your boyfriend is that lingering feeling of love and adoration that he still has for you. They also do that to feed their egos. But a man's ego can come crashing down if you do the right thing. Follow the simple steps, sit back, relax, and enjoy life. Date if you wish, but handle that very carefully.Love yourself first. Ladies, men are hunters by nature. You don't go out there after the break up trying to chase him. Let him do the hunt. This is what gives the man the thrill.Show him that you are a woman of value. My bf asked me why I have not called him after the break up. I said, "I wanted to, but I wanted to give you the time to figure out if our relationship is worth saving, And I needed to feel good about myself before I make the call, otherwise we will go to another war, and it will finally end it "So ladies, don't be desperate. Life is too short to worry about someone who broke up with you. They loved you once, and that feeling stay with your man for a long,long time.I give this book a 10 starTMZ
A**R
Straight, Practical Advice
I decided to buy Gregg’s book after reading the five star reviews on Amazon. I have to admit that was a little sceptical as to whether it would work as my breakup was not “run of the mill” but decided that for the sake of a few pounds, it was worth a try.The book is spilt into three main sections. The first details the seven steps involved in winning your ex back. The second section talks about how to build up your confidence and work on yourself. The third section deals with meeting up with your ex for the first time since the spilt. Unlike other books in its category, I found it a quick, easy read and all of the sections go straight to the point which is exactly what I wanted. I also downloaded the audible version to listen to in the car.At the end of the book, Gregg gives you his email address in case you want to contact him for advice. He also gives you one of his other books for free. I decided to send him an explaining my specific situation (as some of the steps weren’t as straight forward for me) and to my surprise, he replied within 24 hours offering me advice. He was really supportive, gave me links to other material that he thought might help me and, more importantly, gave me his honest opinion which I really appreciated.I can’t testify as to whether the steps actually work as I actually made the decision not to attempt to win my ex back but to move on with my life. I do believe that if I had followed the steps, it would have opened up communication between me and my ex at the very least. Even though I decided not to follow the steps, I still think it was worth the download as the second section about confidence building helped me immensely.If, like me, you’re feeling stuck-in-a-rut and just need a plan of action, I’d certainly recommend this book.
J**O
It works if you follow the rules
I bought this and read it in an hour. I had already implemented the majority of the principles provided in the book so know that they work. The book is actually really pleasant to read unlike other material I have read on this subject. It also helps you find you - we can all lose ourselves in a relationship. Finding yourself again might mean you do not want your ex back. This book works if you implement it to the letter. My situation was a bit more complicated so I emailed the author to describe and ask for advice. I did not expect a response. Less than 24hours later Gregg emailed me back. Outstanding! what a guy. Thank you. I will not be looking to win my ex back but I will use thi book as a bible moving forward for relationships. Buy it and work it - what have you got to lose?
L**N
Gregg is a genius!
I've had a few on and off spells with my current relationship and the best thing about this book is that it isn't just about the relationship, it's about YOU!It's so important to be your own person and have confidence. Relationships don't go well if you don't have your own hobbies to do. If you make your other half your hobby, it's not going to work. Trust me - I've learnt the hard way! But I would always read this book again and again whenever I feel like I'm falling into old habits and spending all my free time with my boyfriend.I even emailed Gregg (his email is in the book) and I didn't expect a reply but he did reply and gave me the best advice based on the problems I was experiencing.If you're not sure - at least try it! Get the Kindle app, download it to your phone and keep it to hand so if you ever have a 'lazy' and weak moment, or you're feeling as though your other half is drifting away - Gregg and his book will be there there for you!
D**Y
Either way you will benefit from this book
I purchased and read this (twice) on the same day. The book gives great practical and supportive advice that you can relate to and accomplish if you follow the steps. My situation is slightly different as I was the one who walked out on my fiancé as I felt I had no choice. This was an agonising time as I had allowed myself to be taken for granted for months before I finally said enough was enough (we had split up for a couple of months a year previously for the same reasons). I initially wanted to reconcile or at least wanted him to protest which he didn't at that time, but that's the male ego for you. Now after reading this book and another of Greg's books 'Who Holds the Cards Now', I have completely changed my view and looking forward to my new start even though my ex has now shown signs he wants to reconcile. The 'no contact' is what I found the most useful as it gave me time to focus on and value myself which the book also explores. Now I appreciate the true saying, that whilst you're spending time and effort with the wrong person, you're wasting the time you could be spending with the right person.In addition Greg supplies an email address you can use to ask any questions which I used and he replied the same day.
D**A
Not worth the money
Unfortunately this book will perhaps work for most women to get a man back,but in my case dating a narcissistic man with quite high self esteem,don't think it will happen and also for my own good I think after a period of grieving you just get there eventually and move on anyways with someone better. The only thing I learner from it ,that I became too available and needed,but I already knew it myself...plus this person has removed me from all social media and no common friends so yes dating some other man was actual my first idea and wait a whole amd show myself on media...Dress pretty dont look desperate,take on knew hobbies. Done it all before I read this book...always works...because as soon as I happy most guys always come back from my past...and want me back.Also have noticed that...So didn't learn much knew as how to basically ignore men same way they do to you and they come back...but that's was extremely hard for me to in first place...so is what is and shouldn't be so much hard work anyways. Some one will accept you for who you are...But yes a bit mind games and not becoming very available is must...Just a shame we are all in lockdown life so there is nothing much to go or show off for woman ,but online dating apps had made for men even easier to fick who they want and move on...Unfortunately I expected bit more from this book and it was very short one too...
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