Come as You Are: the bestselling guide to the new science that will transform your sex life

One of the most difficult things for men to understand is the female mind.. Especially her sexual mind.. There are no clues and usually she just doesn't talk about it because she doesn't know about it. Ahe feels it but doesn't know what it is. This book attempts to provide a logical reasoning and explanation about the female sexual mind... Well written with plenty of examples and a few exercises. It will definitely help your sex life

It is a must read for people in general, cisgender women in particular. I will pass this book as a precious gift to our next generation as well as our previous one. I came to know about this book from an Anna Akana YouTube video. And I'm so grateful for that.

One of those books you wished you had read half a life ago ...

A book every female should read. It will help you understand your body and sexuality better.

I read this book online and impressed by it but the book i received was of poor quality and I could not keep it. Felt like a pirated copy. I returned it the moment it delivered to my place.

Ce livre offre une vision nouvelle sur le sexe, que ce soit dans notre rapport personnel à celui-ci ou avec son partenaire. Il remet à jour nos idées datées sans que nous en ayons eu conscience jusqu'à la lecture de ces lignes. Il y a certes cette idée de "all body is beautiful" qui n'est pas très français comme manière de penser mais c'est juste pour renforcer l'idée d'une normalité dans la diversité, à nous de l'accepter en partant de ce constat. Bref, un livre très nouveau et sympathique qui me permet d'elargir ma connaissance sexuelle.

Interesting understandings

È scritto davvero benissimo, ne vale la pena. Lo farei leggere a chiunque sia o abbia relazioni con una donna. Inoltre molti concetti di estendono anche a situazioni che vanno ben oltre la sola sfera della sessualità. Scorrevole, interessante e mai banale o noioso, ma allo stesso tempo istruttivo e "Eye opening"

Ok when I saw the tile of this book it thought probably what everyone else though about this book. (Ok the introduction and chapter 8 and appendix one might be, but the rest is science over myth), If it did not come so highly recommended from a respected friend of mine from uni. I probably would not every given it the first look. Read is as some "light reading" doing her PhD in Psychology. So of course she decided to experiment on her friend to get a male perspective on the book. So let me get this out of the way first. No!! This is not a collection of sex stories. There are actual case studies. They are not written to be provocative but to understand the feeling or the accelerators and the breaks. Thought Emily does quote a number of scientific theories and is by her own admission a "nerd" (no judgement I have been a proud geek for years), you do not have to be to understand the book, it is written in an easy to read way. I found there is a lot of truth to this book, and even though it is written primarily for women in mind I think both me men and women can lean a lot from it and will see traits of both in the case studies. I also think there are some very important messages in this book the main one being the first like and echoed through out the book "you are OK. You are normal. You are not broken". Usually when ever we do not fit the mold or something does not live up out our expectations one of those three thought does through our heads. the other messages that she tries to show us are the messages we are bombarded with through out our lives the "that is wrong", "you should look like this", or "that is not normal". I quite like the idea of celebrating differences then persecuting people for them. This is a great book with a lot of insightful theories, and science against myth and breaking down some pretty big wall. theories of sex ans psychology have been linked since Sigmund Freud, as some theories have moved on others we still have so much to learn about in others. A great book that should be read by everyone, and commented on what you agree with or disagree with.

O livro é ótimo! Coloca uma perspectiva muito clara sobre a sexualidade feminina (e masculina), numa linguagem que todos entendem.