Flow: The Psychology of Happiness – The International Bestseller

Consider it the official "Handbook on Happiness." Part science and part philosophy, it essentially defines happiness itself, then proceeds to explain in detail how we can attain it every waking moment of our lives (hypothetically at least). Although far from a "light read," I found the intense mental concentration the book demanded to be almost physically pleasurable (yes, I am in fact the very definition of a nerd). When I closed the book, I immediately begged my dad for his extra copy--just so I could go back through and underline the passages I will need to revisit from now until the day I die. If you are unhappy, anxious, or generally dissatisfied with the direction of your life, follow this pattern: (1) read the book's scientific assessment of happiness (or at least my summary below), (2) determine what element of "flow" is missing in your life, and (3) fix it! Thanks to this reading experience, I'm on to step #3 now. I feel enlightened with a unique self-understanding, convinced of the possibility of attaining happiness, and determined to eventually experience constant "flow." If you don't have the time and energy the book requires, read my gross oversimplification of Mr C's genius below: WHAT IS HAPPINESS? A human being experiences happiness to the extent that he can mentally order his consciousness and fight off chaos (what Mr C refers to as "psychic entropy"). This explains why animals (and people who fight daily for their own basic survival) experience almost constant flow. The meaning of their lives, the focus of their energy, is simple. It might not be enjoyable, but it's simple. We spoiled, idle folk are the ones whining on couches about the lack of fulfilment and happiness in our lives. Why? Because we are overwhelmed by so many complicated concerns that we don't know where to focus our psychic energy. WHAT IS FLOW? Here's the crux of the book. While it examines overall "happiness" briefly, it is more concerned with how to truly enjoy the everyday moments of life. Mr C refers to the process of “losing yourself” and experiencing Buddha-like enlightenment/self-actualization as a state of “flow.” Everyone—from professional athletes to chess masters and punk street kids—recalls a moment in which they seemed to disappear as a person, entirely immersed in the activity in which they were engaged (this differs greatly from drug use and other chemically altering activities, which are temporary fixes for those desperately needing to experience “flow”). Mr C collected data from various cultures, professions, socio-economic conditions and stages of life, then discovered certain conditions present during “flow,” including: (1) engagement in an activity that is both challenging and attainable (if the activity is too easy, we’re bored; if it’s too difficult, we’re anxious) (2) the ability to keep concentration focused on the activity (so… THAT’S the problem I had as a stay-at-home-mom :) (3) clearly defined goals that are within the individual’s control ("winning the Pulitzer Prize" is not a self-contained goal, for example, because you personally do not choose who wins the Pulitzer) (4) immediate feedback (our psychic energy tends to atrophy without some verification we’re on the right track) (5) deep, effortless involvement in the activity-which removes from awareness the worries/frustrations of everyday life (during flow, you “get lost” in what you are doing because so much of your psychic energy is engaged) (6) a sense of control over your own actions (more of that fighting-against-chaos definition of happiness) (7) non-self-conscious individualism (paradoxically, you lose yourself in what you are doing and eliminate all self-criticism, yet when the process is complete you are actually a “more complex” individual. Mr C states that “loss of self-consciousness does not involve a loss of the self, and certainly not a loss of consciousness, but rather, only a loss of consciousness OF the self.” THIS IS SO TRUE! As an actress and musician, my worst performances are always the ones in which I am self-conscious about the performance I am giving. There is no room for selfish awareness in Flow!) (8) some alteration of time (either “hours feel like minutes” or vice versa) According to Mr C, the reason most of us classify ourselves as unhappy is that we “keep widening the gap between jobs that are necessary but unpleasant, and leisure pursuits that are enjoyable but have little complexity… To fill free time with activities that require concentration, that increase skills, that lead to a development of the self, is not the same as killing time by watching television or taking recreational drugs.” Once we learn to replicate these essential characteristics of flow, Mr C contends that we can experience flow in every daily activity—whether performing brain surgery or washing the dishes. I especially appreciated the sections on how to create a meaningful “flow” relationship with your children, as well as his postulations about the flow experience through writing. His ideas on the correlation between attention disorders and depression are amazing. Only one downer—he occasionally spoke in a deprecating and somewhat condescending manner about religion. As a scientifically-minded individual who finds great purpose and opportunities in my faith, I found his comments too generalized. Other than that, he was intoxicatingly brilliant! We can experience flow in our home, work, personal relationships, daily activities, everything! We just glance down the list, discover what condition is missing, and get creative. When situations challenge our happiness, we address the problem in a healthy, proactive way and again free up our psychic energy to work toward our life goals. Bottom line—those who control their inner experience determine their quality of life. Preach it! Favourite Quotes: There are literally thousands of [self-help books:] in print… explaining how to get rich, powerful, loved, or slim… Yet even if their advice were to work, what would be the result afterwards in the unlikely event that one did turn into a slim, well-loved, powerful millionaire? Usually what happens is that the person finds himself back at square one, with a new list of wishes, just as dissatisfied as before. What would really satisfy people is not getting slim or rich ​but feeling good about their lives. In the quest for happiness, partial solutions don’t work. Contrary to the myths mankind has created to reassure itself, the universe was not created to answer our needs… A meteorite on a collision course with New York City might be obeying all the laws of the universe, but it would still be a damn nuisance. There is no inherent problem in our desire to escalate our goals, as long as we enjoy the struggle along the way. Mowing the lawn or waiting in a dentist’s office can become enjoyable provided one restructures the activity by providing goals, rules, and the other elements of enjoyment. “The purpose of flow is to keep on flowing, not looking for a peak or utopia but staying in the flow… It is a self-communication.” (a mountain climber on “flow”) Subjective experience is not just one of the dimensions of life, it is life itself. Material conditions are secondary. Of all the virtues we can learn no trait is more useful, more essential for survival, and more likely to improve the quality of life than the ability to transform adversity into an enjoyable challenge. Goals justify the effort they demand at the outset, but later it is the effort that justifies the goal. If goals are well chosen, and if we have the courage to abide by them despite opposition, we shall be so focused on the actions and events around us that we won’t have the time to be unhappy.

This book explores happiness, joy and the meaning of life with useful examples and lots of research. The process where people are totally and happily consumed by life is called flow. This book took a long time to read and is quite long winded but the author writes well and I found the content engaging and I stopped reading often to contemplate the meaning of certain passages. The author could have improved the book by making the content more succinct and summarising the key points more clearly. Here are some of the ideas that I took away from the book: • Happiness is a choice • Our ability to be happy depends on how we interpret events. i.e. control over our consciousness • A person that has control of their consciousness can focus for as long as necessary to achieve their goals and not be distracted by what the world throws at them in terms of thoughts and other distractions • The pursuit of material goals does not enhance our ability to control consciousness. • We should therefore spend more time learning to control consciousness than pursuit of material goals • The key to flow is growth of the self through a sense of discovery and redefined consciousness • It’s not what we do that makes us happy, it’s how we do it • Focus on activities that can create flow • If you can train your mind well enough then it can entertain you in any moment • Flow can be diminished if choice is removed and people feel a necessity to complete a certain activity rather than using it as a hobby • Simply investing psychic energy in an otherwise meaningless task can make it meaningful • If you lack the ability to control your consciousness then try changing your activity to make it more like a game with inherent rewards • Hobbies that are most conducive to flow should include skill, goal setting and require discipline • Invest your time in real challenges rather than watch other people on TV • Passive entertainment is a waste of time • Quality of life depends on our work and our relationships • Flow in relationships can be maintained by constantly finding new challenges • The value of education is equipping students with the ability to understand and produce flow throughout their lives • When in a stressful situation do not focus attention on your self but try to focus attention on others and the wider world • Transform stressful activities into flow activities by setting goals, immersing yourself in the activity and focusing • The meaning of life is to have a meaning, whatever it is • Ideally your life’s meaning should transcend the changing conditions of life so that when events unfold you are able to adapt. • In all aspects of your life choose a goal and go for it.

The book "Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience" by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, which I recently read, was written over 30 years ago. However, its concepts and analyses remain pertinent even in contemporary times. Csikszentmihalyi defines flow as the state of being completely absorbed in an activity, where time appears to pass quickly and individuals feel fully engaged and fulfilled. Flow typically occurs when there's a balance between the challenge of the task at hand and the individual's skill level. If the challenge is too low, people may experience boredom, while if it's too high, they may feel anxiety. In software development, we sometimes use the term "entering the zone" to describe a state of complete immersion in our work. This is akin to flow, where time seems to fly by, and one experiences joy in addressing a problem or constructing a solution. The author outlines several key components of flow, including clear goals, immediate feedback, deep concentration, a sense of control, the merging of action and awareness, loss of self-consciousness, and an altered sense of time. Flow experiences often lead to increased creativity, productivity, and overall well-being. The author praises the merits of rote learning, highlighting its advantages, while expressing disappointment towards educational reformers for gradually phasing it out. He explains how rote learning enhances memory and can regulate consciousness. Furthermore, the author discusses autotelic workers - individuals who exhibit a high degree of intrinsic motivation and find satisfaction in the work itself rather than external rewards or recognition. The author also explores the concept of an internalised symbolic system. During periods of persistent external turmoil, this internal framework can provide a lifeline. In the face of profound adversity, figures like poets, mathematicians, historians, and religious scholars have emerged as pillars of sanity amid tumultuous times. The author argues that navigating stress and harnessing the potency of dissipative structures can lead to the realisation that losing one's job could potentially be a blessing if it leads to discovering a path more aligned with one's aspirations. Overall, "Flow" offers valuable insights into the nature of optimal experience and provides practical guidance for achieving flow in daily life, ultimately leading to greater purpose and fulfilment.

Very intriguing read, and never got bored reading it, which is amazing as I don’t find it easy to read too much when it comes to books that are educational or informative. I finished this in a week, cos some chapters I just couldn’t put it down, so props to the author for making it an entertaining but also very informative at the same time. As for the content it really made sense and didn’t just give you some “formula” to achieving happiness but instead described what true happiness was and you as the reader had to draw your own conclusions on how to apply those examples to your own life. I never thought I would be the kind of person to think of revisiting a informative book, but I just know that I’m not done reading this book and I need to reread some where down the road, so would definitely recommend it to everyone, even if you are happy with your life this might give you some ideas to make it even more eventful and entertaining.

I read this book because both the author and the book are quite influential in positive psychology. In fact, I had come across the central concept of flow many times when reading books on various topics, including education, game design, and mindfulness. Naturally, I was curious to get to the source and learn more about the enigmatic concept of flow. The book helped to clarify the central concept and contrast it with mindfulness, which seems superficially similar. I also liked the examples and concrete suggestions that help the reader to find flow in their own life. However, I did not expect the book to be quite so esoteric. The book definitely belongs more in the self-help than the science category. For instance, in chapter 2 on consciousness, the author writes that “there is no reason to rule out the possibility that eventually we shall be able to bend spoons with brain waves.” There were many more examples where the discussion of flow is very close to mysticism and it feels like the author is over-egging things far beyond what can be scientifically established. Nonetheless, I expect that many readers will find plenty of material to reflect upon and potentially integrate into their lives. For professionals, it can provide a different way of thinking about typical and atypical psychology.

There's an interesting theory here and much of what Csikszentmihalyi writes has a practical side to it (although, for reasons central to his thesis, he doesn't present a recipe of how to be happy here). So far as he sticks to that, it's a good book. But he is frequently tempted to stray off topic and make sweeping statements about how his theory of optimal experience explains everything in human history.

I read this book over a long period of time dipping in and out of it during moments of curiosity about life and as research for my upcoming book on Imposter Syndrome. Who can resist the answer to the question: how to achieve happiness? The author’s answer is fascinating, revelatory, both simple and complex and highly relevant. My understanding, in a nutshell: find (or create) a passion fuelled goal that drives you and acquire the skills to achieve it. When objective and goal are suitably matched, this creates Flow, the ultimate state of happiness. This is how you achieve order in a chaotic world, and it’s how you make sense of your life and the world around you. Worth a read.

How to create happiness from nothing? How to live in the moment? How to wake up and smell the coffee? A ton of books promise that and cannot deliver. This one does. An excellent writer and a gem of a book for living life.

Una manera fresca de enfocar el liderazgo y conseguir sacar lo mejor de las personas. Muy recomendable y facil de leer...

Explains all I've ever been confused about, and confirms all I've ever believed about the meaning of life and living a life of success and joy. I also now understand why relationships fail and what can be done to make them long lasting and enjoyable. An absolute "must-read".

Ogni capitolo, a volte persino la singola pagina, mi porta a pensare e riflettere sul contenuto... Davvero scritto bene e rilevante nel mondo di oggi.

I was initially a little apprehensive but this book is amongst the best that I have ever read and yup I have indeed read a few

Easy to read this work pulls together neuroscience, psychology, sociology and philosophy to show a way for people to genuinely engage with life. The genius is that it does not try to suggest it has a new answer, only to try to understand and elaborate on what already works. A must read, not just to understand happiness, but for developing a life worth living.