The ALL NEW Don't Think of an Elephant!: Know Your Values and Frame the Debate

This little book presents many reasons and practices that help one understand the political jargon and methods used to help us accept or reject policies and government actions. More than ever, this book is important and worth reading to learn how to find out what's under the rhetoric blasted to citizens during election campaigns. Learn to recognize "fake" when you see or hear it! And find out how simply changing the frame and the wording can make events and policies seem good or bad...e.g., when global warming becomes climate change, it's a lot less scary. And, Lakoff knows his linguistics on which the book is based.

The Delivery was excellent, the company that shipped me the book was very fast and awesome. The Book itself: Quite intriguing on how the book itself "frames" it's own beliefs. The book takes conservative believes way out of context. Mis-applies James Dobson positions and creates it's own system out of a misunderstood position. But, again, the book is practicing what it preaches. The author is using his own framework to create a position that he believes is legitimate. So, well done there. I find it interesting how he calls the conservative beliefs strict and those strict self reliant beliefs lead to success, when most conservatives believe that immoral people are those who are with the most money at this point in history. Also, the author speaks of the liberal position as "progressive;" framing the idea that the liberal position is progressing in a positive light, when in reality, it's not.

George Lakoff’s *Don’t Think of an Elephant* is one of those books that immediately sharpens your awareness. Once you read it, you’ll never look at political language the same way again. He shows, with clarity, how conservatives and progressives use different metaphors (“Strict Father” vs. “Nurturant Parent”), and why conservatives have been so effective at shaping public opinion with phrases like “tax relief” or “family values.” For that contribution alone, this book is worth reading. It gives language to the hidden power of framing and shows how words don’t just describe reality — they create it. That said, the more deeply I read, the more flaws and contradictions I noticed. Some are subtle, others glaring, and together they reveal the limitations of Lakoff’s framework. ### Where Lakoff Shines * He reveals how metaphors structure our thinking at a subconscious level. * He exposes the cleverness of conservative messaging and the struggles of progressives to keep up. * He pushes us to take language seriously, not as decoration but as the foundation of thought and politics. ### Where Lakoff Stumbles 1. **Rigid Binary Thinking** Lakoff reduces politics to two mutually exclusive family metaphors: Strict Father (conservative) vs. Nurturant Parent (progressive). But real life is more complex. Humans are multi-framed beings, switching between strictness and nurture depending on context. Reducing an entire ideology to one metaphor is as limiting as the frames he critiques. 2. **Frames as All-Encompassing** Lakoff claims we can’t think outside of frames, yet people constantly shift perspectives in an instant. Trauma, humor, art, or even a single slogan can flip someone’s worldview overnight. Frames are powerful, yes, but not absolute. 3. **The “Repetition” Fallacy** He insists slogans only work after years of repetition. But history shows otherwise: “Black Lives Matter,” “Me Too,” or “I Have a Dream” resonated almost instantly because they tapped into existing truths. Humans are multi-track; they don’t need decades of conditioning to recognize authenticity. 4. **Progressives Defined by Opposition** Lakoff urges progressives to “advance their own frame” rather than repeat conservatives’ — yet much of his book does exactly the opposite. He critiques conservative framing at length, while offering little in the way of a consistent, positive progressive frame. Ironically, this repeats conservative slogans more than it advances a new vision. 5. **The “Fact-Based” Superiority Claim** He insists progressives are rooted in facts while conservatives are stuck in rigid moral frames. But facts without resonance don’t persuade. Recent elections showed Democrats often attack Republicans but struggle to articulate inspiring alternatives. Frames grounded in compassion, dignity, and vision carry more weight than endless fact-checking. 6. **Selective Blindness** Lakoff argues conservatives dominate media, universities, and think tanks, but he writes from UC Berkeley — one of the most progressive universities in the country. Most mainstream media lean progressive. His claim ignores these realities and weakens his argument. ### The Bigger Lesson What *Don’t Think of an Elephant* reveals — unintentionally — is the danger of being trapped inside your own frame. Lakoff diagnoses the problem brilliantly but then succumbs to it himself. His insights are sharp, but his rigidity blinds him to counter-examples and alternative ways of thinking. A sustainable frame must be consistent **within and without**. It cannot just apply to “us” while excluding “them.” Otherwise, as we see with current events, a victim frame quickly flips into hypocrisy. True empowerment requires universality: compassion, dignity, and clarity for all. ### Final Word This book is an interesting read, but take it as a doorway, not the whole house. Lakoff shows us how frames divide, but he doesn’t show us how to transcend them. For that, you’ll need to look beyond strict/nurturant binaries and toward approaches that honor our full humanity — our emotions, boundaries, clarity, and choice. Read this book, but read it critically. It will sharpen your vision — and also teach you the danger of letting any single frame define your world.

Mr. Lakoff's book is a primer on talking to people on the right in a way that will more likely create understanding. Mr. Lakoff makes a cogent case that the primary issue is the way in which an issue is "framed." When we start to argue our point using the terminology of our opponent. it's giving your opponent the home field advantage. Not only have we assured we will lose the argument, we also practically assure that we will never find a meeting of the minds. We need to begin from a standpoint of shared values. The current antagonism between progressives and the right has a life of its own, and can poison any discussion from its beginning. This book offers positive ways to approach that problem. The final and most useful section is "How to respond to Conservatives." It offers many good guidelines. There are so many suggestions, I read that section several times to take it all in. Even though I avoid debates because of the anger they inevitably create, after reading the last chapter, I almost felt like seeking out a conservative to try to have a positive dialogue, and now I feel far more ready whenever that kind of conversation comes up.

This book helped me understand my father better, and by extension, contextualized my upbringing and political situations which I found difficult to understand upon fully entering political discourse around 2017. My father believed in freedom and limited government, but every policy he suggested (police, military, borders, anti-social safety nets etc) suddenly sounded like echoes of the alt right that had infiltrated online communities that I had grown to recognize for its flourishing hatred and toxicity. This book explained so many ideas around these issues much more pragmatically than previous books i read on the subject. It deserves to be shared among anyone who calls themselves a progressive or a leftist or anyone who wants a better future for children. I just want kids in the future to be able To enjoy internet communities without fear of rubbing shoulders with neo-Nazis. This book provides an excellent analysis of a wide variety of issues, which I hope more people can use to construct more helpful discourse frames.

Al principio, el autor describe un mecanismo bastante interesante en el cual supuestamente se basa que nuestras afiliaciones políticas sean unas u otras, y que según el autor, podemos alterar para conseguir convencer a otras personas de nuestros principios. A partir de ahí, me parece más un manual para que los demócratas americanos no sigan perdiendo elecciones.

Apesar de ter sido escrito a mais de 10 anos, esse livro nos fornece importantes respostas para alguns dos nossos dilemas atuais. Lakoff nos mostra que a esquerda muitas vezes se ilude ao achar que a argumentação lógica e racional é a única saída para impedirmos o retrocesso político, social e moral que estamos presenciando no mundo inteiro com o avanço de radicais de direita. O autor sugere que uma abordagem mais eficaz parte do desenvolvimento de valores e afetos que traduzam para os eleitores as ideias de progresso social e político.

Wer verstehen will, auf welchen Werten und welcher Psycho-Logik konservative US Politik aufbaut, an welche Instinkte sie erfolgreich appelliert und warum Argumente dagegen sinnlos sind, sollte dieses Buch unbedingt lesen. Für mich war wieder einmal erstaunlich, wie Semantik "richtig" eingesetzt verschleiert und manipuliert.

Fantastic! Everyone would read it. If you are real democratic you have to read it. easy language and simile exsample.

The quality of the book is questionable at best. It’s barely been a couple of weeks and the pages have already started coking out of their binding. I expected the quality of the book to be much higher considering the price of the product. Absolutely disappointed in the product. I suggest buying it from a bookstore near you.