The Phoenix Marriage: God creates beauty out of ashes

Kyle and Tammy have been through some real marital struggles. But through it all, God has never failed them. Kyle and Tammy are on a mission to build others up because they know what it’s like to be torn down. God restores families, and like many of us who have experienced the restoring power of God, Kyle and Tammy have used their struggle as a launching pad for a beautiful ministry.There were many things working against restoration in their situation. Having a blended family is very stressful in itself. Add to that business travel, financial pressure, the stress of building a new house, and the devastation of infidelity. Most would think there was no hope for reconciliation. But while they were on the road to divorce, God intervened. And it is truly amazing what God’s love and grace will do to someone who is overwhelmed with guilt and shame. I believe that this book would be a great encouragement for those who may have given up hope that their marriage could be renewed.The Phoenix Marriage: God Creates Beauty Out of Ashes is a resource that will benefit any marriage. Full of practical tips that can be implemented quite easily, The Phoenix Marriage informs the reader of the natural arc of relationships and provides tangible actions that couples can take to cooperate with God in the renewal process. Each chapter ends with a set of questions that provoke personal application of concepts in order to reinforce the ideas presented in the chapter. The book is complete with a great collection of tools, resources, and testimonies of marriage renewal.Being one who was betrayed by infidelity, I found it interesting to read from the perspective of the one who committed adultery. I have a support group for betrayed spouses, and it is common for the betrayed spouse to be in shock and disbelief as they struggle to make sense of the choices that were made by their spouse. I receive messages from betrayed spouses frequently asking why their spouse is suddenly cold and distant and pushing for divorce. Reading The Phoenix Marriage gave me insight into the mind of the unfaithful spouse.I appreciate the author’s desire to bring awareness regarding the dangers of having a close friendship with a member of the opposite sex. Innocent friendships can easily become a destructive virus that infects the mind of the unfaithful spouse. If this awareness can prevent one person from having an affair, then it is all worth it.The author has a way of capturing feelings and experiences that all married people can relate to. He also offers concrete actions that couples can take in order to hold on to the truth when the enemy attacks their minds. While reading this book, I found myself frequently thinking, “That makes a lot of sense.” I recommend this practical resource for all married couples.

Good book

You can use this book as a guide and pat turn to revive your marriage!

GREAT!!

Super Helpful and encouraging read from a couple who came to the brink of divorce and have found hope and healing by staying together in their marriage - and doing the hard work to rebuild it from the ground up. There are some great principles here for couples who have broken marriages, and want to rebuild and renew their relationship.

The book displays passion and redemption. The author seeks to utilize personal struggle in order to empower others. The book has a high-energy level, and it's practical. It is an easy read and something that couples can work through together.