Femdom for Nice Girls: A Self-Guided Manual for the Caring Mistress

I bought this for my girlfriend to read because although she was not entirely clueless about my fascination with and desire for strong women she had never been in a relationship with a man like myself and like most people had never really given this sort of carry on more than the occasional half-hearted play in the bedroom let alone question it at any real length.I have not read the book myself but she is very impressed with how it has explained some of those fundamental questions that although I tried to answer in very frank conversations I just couldn't quite give her the understanding she needed. I can only say that it has been extremely helpful for me and my girlfriend and being very short (only 100 pages) I would say it would be best used as a very gentle hint that you have an interest in exploring this kind of relationship with your otherwise sceptical partner.I have marked it down to 4 stars as she said although it was extremely informative for the shocked wife/girlfriend to quickly read to get some kind of grasp on what he's thinking (or up to!) it is a bit short and she'd like a bit more of it to actually read, but has given her a great starting point - reassured that whatever the future might hold she's definitely happy to be taking the lead!(been told I'm not allowed to read it btw!)

A good start for single or couples to work through. Full of good advice and help.

The book is easy to read and inspiring to establish/maintain/develop caring dominance within a loving couple. I liked the fact that it focuses on both partner's needs. It does an excellent job of demystifying various BDSM concepts in a non-threatening way. Discipline is well-emphasized, and the author provides many alternatives to establish Domestic Discipline, helping a wife to be guilt-free for training and disciplining the husband. It contains many clear examples of activities, enhancing a Dominant/submissive relationship. It is a handy guide for establishing a Femdom household.

You could do a lot worse than this book, which takes the tricky problem of a beloved male partner asking you how to dominate him, and takes it further than merely pleasing him.If you already identify as a dominant or don't have a partner who is pushing for male submission this book might not be for you. However its deep and constant respect for the readers own needs and desires make it better than the the average "how to dominatrix" guide.See this book as a limit respecting femdom-to-vanilla translation manual. It won't be as helpful for a female dominant who'd do it without her partner being the main advocate.

This is a comforting and re assuring book for any woman who has never participated in kink and BDSM relationships and feels overwhelmed by it.The book gives ideas and specific pointers, which makes it different fromother books on this subject.