Fear: Essential Wisdom for Getting Through the Storm
A**R
Transformed my depression and crisis with food for thought and practice
I stumbled upon this book after years of dealing with growing fear, anxiety and anger-related issues that were greatly impacting my private and professional life, robbing me of a good night's sleep and just plain making life miserable. When I bought this book, I was battling moderate depression that was transitioning to severe depression, I knew I had to act fast before it completely incapacitated me. I noticed in the comments that someone had recovered from a moderate depression and I had also heard talks by Thich Nhat Hahn online which attracted my interest with their 'unconventional' approach. I was ready to put any good advice into practice and not just for the short term.Not only was the mere reading of this book comforting and relieving for me, but the exercises it introduces helped me transform fear in an unconventional way. Though in the presence of intense emotions, perhaps even in a panic attack, my first reflex was to run, to find a way to escape, the exercises suggest meeting it head on - but not with aggression or in a challenging manner as proposed by some of the inevitably flawed techniques I have tried - but with compassion, curiosity and concern. Thich Nhat Hahn suggests that we observe our emotions, acknowledge them - even handle them with the concern we would for a crying baby through deep listening - and begin to work our way back into the present moment, back to ourselves.By sticking to the exercises in this book and filling my mind with good food for thought (reading more books on this subject, watching dharma by Thich Nhat Hahn on youtube), I moved from being consumed by despair, fear, frustration and the psychosomatic illness that accompanies it to being on the road to recovery. About four and half weeks after starting the book and encountering 'Thay's' approach to 'the art of suffering' I am working again at full capacity, sleeping through the night for over two weeks now, restoring harmony to my relationships and starting to enjoy life again, which is no small feat considering where I started only a month ago. I am also experiencing a clarity of mind that I have almost never experienced. As my back was up against a wall, I started practicing his exercises right away and multiple times every day in a gentle and cautious fashion. I believe that this and good food for thought were what got me back on track - without drugs or any other treatment of any kind.I have read many books on how to deal with fear, phobias and panic attacks, still my depression and anxiety continued to advance and cripple my life even further. I stumbled upon the books by Thich Nhat Hahn quite literally in my darkest hour. I hope that my story can give others in crisis and despair the hope to carry on. Barely a month after starting this book, I am largely restored, but still have a ways to go so I will be continuing to practice and to gain insight through introspection, mindfulness and reading more Thich Nhat Hahn not to mention others like him. As I regain my strength, I am compelled to share this experience to help others suffering like I did.
B**L
Great book
I think this has come to be my favorite book by this wonderful person. Certainly among my favorite books for its insight into meditation, self-knowledge, and the ability to live with sanity. Really outstanding book. I am humbled by it. I go back to it again and again, like I do with The Power of Now and Mindfulness In Plain English and Jane Robert's The Nature of the Psyche.
H**.
Getting Perpective on Fear
Thich Nhat Hanh is gifted in the way that he is able to share his thoughts about a tough subject in a calm, simple, easy to understand manner. Do not hesitate to get this book. I got this book because I was dealing with the aftermath of my first-ever panic attack several months ago. I have never pegged myself as being an anxious person, but I got anxiety and fearful thinking as a bonus after the ordeal.I was on a personal developmental journey the last year and a half, but the last few months was the real challenge. I had to rely on myself and build resilience on my own, even though I had a great support group of family and friends. It was one of those things that I knew deep down inside that whatever I did moving forward, I would have to walk this path alone. It was scary because I never relied on myself like that. In the beginning, it was riddled with self-doubt, anxiety, and a lot of fear.I was scared of the concept of 'death' from a very early age. I didn't understand it, and quite frankly, it's not a topic that is brought up at the dinner table. So, I never really got a chance to explore this concept. Not to get dramatic, but I thought I was dying when I had my panic attack. I had to peel a lot of layers to get to the very core of all my anxiety and fears, and that was due to the concept of death. I wanted to live my life powerfully, fearlessly, full of love and gratitude but it would be very short-lived. Paradoxically, to live well, one must also make friends and be at peace with death. This book artfully approaches this topic. There's one sentence in that particular chapter that empowered me like no other books I have read combined.The following day after reading 'Fear', I felt peace and contentment that I hadn't felt in a very long time. Of course, I still face moments from time to time where I feel anxious or fearful, but I am better equipped to handling those situations and as with anything in life, it takes practice to get better. I am eternally grateful that Thich Nhat Hanh imparted his wisdom.
J**G
Good
I love Tich Nhat Hanh. The book arrived promptly and is of good quality.
R**O
Excelente libro
Me gusta la facilidad con la que expresa ideas de un tema tan profundo
N**O
Excellent book!
Another excellent book from Thich Nhat Hanh. This acclaimed author offers the calm wisdom of someone who has been practising Mindfulness for a long time, and who has learned the true benefits of it. His method of teaching is straight forward, and easy to understand. His life experiences add to the authenticity of his teachings, and when reading his books, there is the sense that one is in the presence of a true teacher.In this book, he offers a very tender-hearted way of working with fear, with gentle teachings and firm encouragement. He shows us that fear is something that we need not be afraid of.
T**R
Easy to follow, hard to master
Very well written, with lots of good advice. You will get to know yourself better as you read the book.
K**N
Aliveness, authenticity beyond survival traits
This is a great book to learn aliveness beyond survival traits and one’s authenticity.At the same time, this helps me to understand more about neuroplasticity and epigenetic,though he the author does not define any words on this. I suggest neuro scientists, med.doctorsto read this. Thanks
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