The Rational Male Paperback – 1 Oct. 2013

I've read this book twice as i had doubts , by my nature i'm skeptical . After i die , i'll cease to exist. Analyzing faults for living , i have apply the same methodology on second read , comparing with real life , i found out why women would do what they have done , always i had to discard them after a few months . I've never been settled down . I was never good enough for long term , i didn't had it , i was a "rebel" as a mindset , selfcentered since a kid,selfish as some said, had a troublesome childhood . Now getting this content, i can frame why , now i know and tried it for just a few years to get to be more of a beta mindset, reference from book, so to keep one of them closer to me , to make me some kids. But i'll still love them all to bits ,women out there , and i don't mean as a general reference , they seen me as one of pleiadians , aura males, just to play with me, they can't keep hands out of me . Because of it i got only five closer friends during my life ,many developed resentment of me . Reading this book made me be aware what i am in relation to this world . Have read many books especially the old psychoanalysis , as i mention i live to analyze and anayze to live , im a voracious reader with an iq of 131 and OCEAN test not pleasent for majority of average ppl . This book ties nods in the matrix , made me see the code . Literaly who will read will need to let go of old mindset , i would say imposible but yet our personalty is Plastic Mind , plactisity mind, brain can adapt,rewire, or heal, renew itself after trauma and compensate for disability if need be.One of biggest minds living today Shmuel "Sam" Vaknin can make good supositions on it but even him is biased , socialy programed as all of us . Today's human society needs men .

As a man who has recently entered back into the sexual market place after a five-year hiatus, the rational male has been one of the foundation books of forearming me before stepping back into the arena. I tried the MGTOW thing after getting burned severely in my last relationship and turns out it wasn’t for me. Primarily because I both enjoy spending time with women and the potential growth that can be gained in relationships.Therefore, gaining red pill awareness to better place myself into a position that makes it less likely to get heavily burned again seems to be the best option available. It won’t guarantee it, but it stacks the odds more in my favor. And this book gives plenty of solid advice to better arm oneself at the outset.The key parts, for me personally, to take away from the book are:- to place yourself as the number one focus of your life and invest in yourself first and foremost- to only allow women as a compliment to your life, never the center of it- spend your time and energy on achieving your life objectives, and if entering a relationship maintain that same focus and drive permanently. And never allowing her to stop or change you in any way.- that soulmates are a myth, and instead, there are many ones out there, and if one relationship doesn’t work out then to just move on asap without ever looking back.- that it’s normal to catch ONEitis for one girl, and by understanding the psychology behind why this occurs makes it easier to deal with and move on from if a relationship doesn’t work out.As with everything in life, you must always take the good points and leave the bad (or the points you don’t agree with.) And in this case, although I completely agree with the psychology behind plate theory - which is knowing within oneself that you have plenty of other options if one girl doesn’t work out - having sex with multiple girls concurrently is something that doesn’t appeal to me.With that said, however, all the other advice in the book has equipped me with psychological tools I never had previously which has placed me in a stronger position now in regards to women, than before I read it.Also, The 9 Iron Rules of Tomassi included at the end of the book justify buying it alone. I refer back to these every few months or so which help keep me grounded, especially rule number one regarding frame.Thank you for your work, Rollo - it is much appreciated.

Before the sexual revolution, society and religion regulated the interactions between men and women so men could afford to be ignorant of female nature. The 60s brought sexual liberation, legalised abortion, the welfare state and universally available contraception followed by no-fault divorce and heavily female-centric custody laws.This gave women control over children birth combined with the legal hammer of child support and the safety net of the welfare state and heavily tipped the scales in their favour. Men, who had up to now been playing by the old rules, have been left confused and hurt by behaviours the seemingly irrational and often cruel choices of women that started after this power shift.The Rational Male is the first and seminal book that helps the male reader to make sense of this new dating landscape. Since its publication, there has been an explosion of 'Red Pill' authors and books on the same topic but nowhere is the information laid out more clearly or logically than in the Rational Male.The book explains female nature through the lens of the female sexual strategy of always looking to trade up (hypergamy.) When this is viewed not just as a desire, but as an imperative, we are shown how many confusing female behaviours become not only explainable, but predictable.Men have been guilty of taking a 'male-centric' approach and treating relationship problems with logic, communicating logically and expecting women to be logically consistent with their statements. For example, when a woman says that if a man does more housework she will be more willing in the bedroom, men can be fooled into thinking this is a logical trade and be puzzled by why she is still not in the mood after he has done the dishes.By using the framework in the Rational Male and observing rather than listening, men can begin to understand women and to adjust their behaviours to get what he wants from the relationship.The Rational Male is (literally) a life saving book and essential reading for any man, single, dating or married. This was the information your father never told you and the information he never had to learn.Buy this book and buy a copy for your closest male friend too.